you noe i read in a book that if you want to control ur anger u gotta continually ask urself a question. and i seem to have forgotten what that question is.
but i just know its either
"u sure?"
or
"why?"

eg.
scenario:
you have been emptying the rubbish because ur mother asks u to and sometimes because u really cant stand the sight of too much clutter in that bin.
you have a naturally rude look or ap kia face.
ur mum says that whenever she asks u to empty thebin, u seem beri unreluctant and always show face.
you get angry.
THE.
who wont?
ok at leats i will la.

lets see abt "u sure?"
me- im angry
mind-u sure?
me- duh. how would u feel if someone accuses u of haveing a reluctant look on ur face when u dont?
mind-u sure?
ok, maybe i DID have that rude look. but im born with it.
mind-u sure?
me-so u are asking me whther im sure if im born with a rude look or did i just put that look on my face, right? erm. i think both. i mena, if u are asked to do sth when u are in the middle of sth and bz at it, wun u be angry?
mind-u sure?
me- ok, other less pro ppl will not be angry, but pro ppl like me will be angry.
mind-u sure?
ME-ARE U ASKING ME WHETHER I'M PRO OR NOT???
IF THAT IS THE CASE. PHHHISH OFF. COS I am PRO. AND IM NOT ONLY PRO, I AM APPARENTLY AND DEFINITELY THE PROEST!!!!!!!!!!!! weeeeeee
mind-u sure?
me- PHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHIIIIISSSHHH.
*JUST KEEP FISHING , JUST KEEP FISHING*

NEW BALANCE LA, I DUN THINK IT WORKS. the "u sure?"
i think it got my angrier. kaoz

let see abt the "why?" then
me- i. am. angry.
mind-why?
me- cos my mum just accused me of having a reluctant face when i thrwo rubbish when i did not have it!
mind-why?'
me- cos she has EYES to SEE the look on my face and probably cant judge whther it is natural of a put-on?
mind-why?
me- well, she has eyes becos she's human. and eyes are for seeing.
and she cannot judge the above becos she is nto as pro as me????
mind-why?
me- humans are created, or evolved if you think scientifically. God gave her eyes, since she was born. OR, pre-humans realised they need to observe their surroundings and evolved to have eyes. she is nto as pro as me becos erm, nobody is as pro as me? HAHAhahahahahahahaha
mind-why?
me- ask God. cos pre-humans need eyes. so they decided to have them. i mean how are they going to recognise their fellow ape-men or know whether they are talking to black ant or a red ant. &becos "if i think i am the proest, then i am the proest. " therefore,"if i think noone is as pro as me, then no one is as pro as mee".
mind-why?
me- i think im not angry anymore.
mind-why?
me- cos i wanna stop answering ur questions.
mind-why?
me- cos they are irritating and on -going, they can go on forever!!!!
mind-why?
me- i think im angry now.
mind-why?
me- cos u keep asking me why!
mind-why?
me- now u are asking me why u keep asking me why, right? ask urself.
mind-why?
me- cos u sae one mah.

i think i know how to shut they "why?" up.
see:
me-iam angry
mind-why?
me- why? cannot ar
ok lame